In looking for a solution to this, I am tempted to think that the kids need new or different toys, or maybe different books to read. My husband is always good to remind me that the issue is not a lack of toys - they just need more creative ideas.
As Christians, we have some specific goals in mind when it comes to how our boys spend their time.
We want them to be:
- Learning to work diligently, as unto the Lord. This means completing school work and learning to do various chores around the house.
- Growing in the their knowledge of God. This happens all throughout the day in unplanned ways, but specifically during our morning Bible Time.
- Content with what they have. Not always clamoring for a new toy, because new stuff will never make us happy.
- Good stewards of our resources. Taking care of our things. Making toys and games out of what we already have.
- Taking opportunities to serve others. We have lots of ideas to implement here, and we hope to post about projects that young boys can do to serve others.
Enjoy!
Hey that's a pretty neat idea (I guess I mean ideas). I have a boy and girl so "default mode" can go either way, ya know, based on who's in charge at the moment. We have similar goals at our house, but wouldn't mind hearing (or rather seeing) your input :)
ReplyDeleteStopping from Mom Loop! As the mom of a young boy who we hope will be a Christian someday I look forward to reading your blog.
ReplyDeleteKingdom 1st Mom tweeted about your new blog, so I'm dropping by to check it out. Love this idea. As the mom of a 8 mo old, I'll follow along and hopefully implement some of your ideas in the not-so-far-off future! Our parenting goals sound similar to yours. :D
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Alicia
P.S. You should get a twitter handle (if you don't already have one) so we can follow you that way!
I have 2 boys - ages 7 and 4, and I completely understand the wild boy default mode :-). I look forward to reading your blog for additional ideas to run out the energy.
ReplyDeleteAs a mom of 4 boys (1 daughter) I totally agree that yes 'wild' is a perfect word for them. Who ever said boys and girls are only different because we raise them that way has obviously never raised boys!
ReplyDeleteI look forward to reading your blog...and welcome to the blogging world, enjoy the ride! Kim
I have 3 boys I birthed (that sounds weird-ha!) and 2 stepsons...so, I know where you're coming from!
ReplyDeleteMost of our boys are older than yours, but I have lots of activities to do for little or no money...it's the best way to go!
Good luck with blogging--don't feel frustrated if you feel no one is reading at times...just keep plugging away! (If nothing else, it's a fun outlet!)
My blogs are:
Blended Blessings (bethanyspencer.blogspot.com) and Selah Photography (selahphoto.blogspot.com)
Stop by and see me if you need anything! I am kind of new at this too, but I will do my best.
Take care :)
I have two boys, and two girls (I like to say, I have a full set in both sizes!) and WILD would totally describe default boy mode.
ReplyDeleteI look forward to seeing what you guys come up with! I know we're big on pretend play here at my house!
(btw, love the photo of your boys!)
So glad you are doing this, Sarah!! You know how crazy my boy gets in default mode... and we have another one on the way :) Looking forward to following along!
ReplyDeleteStopping over from Mom Loop and can't wait to read more of your blog! =)
ReplyDeleteLove it! It is great to have goals to work toward. Lovely fam!
ReplyDeleteJennifer
Check out my blog about our 4 boys if you get a chance: http://cooperating4boys.blogspot.com/
Welcome to the blog world! Stopping by from Mckmama's community!
ReplyDeleteWelcome!!! See you at BlogFrog!
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Have a nice day.
Nan
http://beonefineday.blogspot.com/
As the mom of one boy and step-mom of another, I'm totally looking forward to seeing what you come up with!
ReplyDeletewhat a great ideal, looking forward to seeing what you come up with.
ReplyDeleteStopping by from Mom Loop. Love the ideas that you have. I might be able to help you out with the fourth one. You should check out my blog for some ideas that will help get your guys in touch with the outdoor world!
ReplyDeleteThanks, everyone, for the big welcome! My boys and I have been brainstorming a list of ideas of things that we have enjoyed doing, and we can't wait to try out some new ideas too!
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the blogging world!
ReplyDeleteSaw a nice post from your friend Quirky Mama at the BlogFrog.
~Carol
http://www.creatorscreatures.blogspot.com
Welcome to blogging! I have a house full of 3 boys. Always active and fun. Well, not always. But mostly ;-)
ReplyDeleteI love how you named your Bible time "Christian Soldier Club." Very cute! Welcome to blogging. I am new also. It looks like we started around the same time. I started last month and there is so much to learn but I am enjoying it. Good Luck
ReplyDelete~Anne
http://lessonsthrulife.com
not cool
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